What I saw at the TTC was interesting …
I Young man that seems that he was about to go to “juvy” and
seems that it was not the first time. There was too much sadness and adulthood
in such a young mind. I think he was
just about 16 years old, maybe younger. I
don’t know if he was in a process of getting transferred. But what I can tell
is that this boy was not happy of his destination. I was on my way home and he
was going to a future full of uncertainty.
I heard when he was saying to his father: “Dad, If that is
how you guys want to deal with me. I’m not happy and I don’t like it there but
if that is what needs to happen then…”
I don’t know what he did, maybe something big, maybe he
deserves it. My dad used to say “mistakes you have to pay them either with
money or your life”. After the mistake
comes a consequence, that is true. But I still have the picture of this boy in
green sweater and pants, without pockets, complaining about not having his
belongings; with folded papers in his hands; full of sadness showed by his body
language, his eyes showing insecurity, and a submissive tone of voice asking
his father for attention.
A young man, asking his father if he could go to court with
him. A father that answered: - “I honestly can’t make it, I don’t have the time
tomorrow”– saying the words in a careless manner. If he wanted to hide what he
was feeling, to show him that you have to be strong no matter what then he succeeded;
I’m convinced. Maybe I should not judge because I do not know the full story…
But, seriously? You
cannot make it… you say. Did you
listen? I think his asking because he needs you there. Maybe he wants to know if he can count on you
or if you are going to visit when he is away…
Anyway, it was sad to end my day with this experience. At
the same time I got a reminder of how lucky I was, how lucky I am today, and
for that I’m grateful.
Fathers and mothers, be good to your sons and daughters,
guide them with example. They will be the lovers, friends, fathers and mothers
of tomorrow. They are part of your legacy, the ones that continues your story.
Sons and daughters, listen to your parents, they want what is best for you.
Everyone… to listen to someone does not cost you a dime. Listen
to the hidden words; let’s learn to read between the lines. We might save a
life by just listening carefully.
Carlos A.
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